13 Practical Steps You Need to Take When a Loved One Dies

1. Call the local funeral home. Bring the deed toyour loved one was covered under Social
the grave plot, pre-paid cremation documents andSecurity, his or her spouse may be eligible for a
or military discharge papers (if applicable). Alsolump-sum death benefit. Spouses must have been
bring any written instructions your loved one leftmarried for 9 months or longer before the death,
behind regarding viewing and burial preferences.unless the spouse's death was the result of an
And note that it is customary for friends andaccident or military service.
family to call the funeral home to find out more8. Contact life insurance and annuity providers.
on the funeral arrangement such as the date andObtain any policies for life insurance or annuities
time of any viewings, church funerals, burials, andand notify the carriers of the death to process
treatment of flower arrangements andthe claims.
preferences regarding charitable donations.9. Access safety deposit box. In order to access
2. Write up an obituary. Write out information onthe safety deposit box, you will need to be listed
your loved one's education, career, survivingas a signatory on the box and have the key.
family, military service, notable achievements, etc.Most banks will not allow you access without
to help assist the funeral director in draftingthese two requirements being met. It is also
information for the obituaries in local newspapers.possible to obtain an Order from the Probate
3. Get certified death certificates. You canCourt to gain access to the box.
typically obtain death certificates from the funeral10. Call the accountant. The executor/executrix of
director or from the County Assessor/Recorder'sthe estate will need to know what taxes, if any,
Office. Request at least 10 certified copies. In Sanare due to the IRS and State. The accountant (if
Diego County, Certified Death Certificates are $12the decedent had one) should be called as soon as
for each copy. See the attached forms forpossible to make sure that any estate tax that is
obtaining Certified Death Certificates by mail anddue is paid within 9 months of the date of death
in person.as required by Federal law. The estate may need
4. Review Will and/or Trust. Search for yourto file a separate tax return and a 706 tax return
loved one's original will. This will often times bemay be necessary in a larger estate.
kept at the drafting attorney's office or in a fire11. Pay any bills that are outstanding. Make sure to
proof safe or safety deposit box. Hopefully, youropen a bank account for the estate if you are
loved one kept the document at home in a firethe executor or a trust bank account if your
proof safe or with the drafting attorney since theloved one had a trust and you are the trustee.
safety deposit box could be "frozen" at deathTransfer liquid funds from assets in the estate or
which could make it difficult to obtain. After atrust to the new bank account to pay things like
death, the original will should be lodged with thefuneral expenses, utility bills, credit card payments,
Probate Court in the region where the personmortgages or any other debts your loved one
was a resident. After you have located the willhad. The executor or trustee needs to make
and/or trust, the next step is to take thesesure these payments are made and that records
documents to an attorney.of all expenses are kept up-to-date. This will be
5. Call an attorney. You may or may not need theimportant information that should be shared with
help of an attorney for a probate or trustthe accountant for the filing of tax returns.
administration. It is best however to consult with12. Notify the post office. If you are the trustee
an attorney to best make that determination.or executor of the estate, you need to contact
There are many steps in a trust administrationthe post office to forward any future mail to
that if not done or done improperly, could lead toyour address. You may need to cancel certain
legal liability for the successor trustee or executor.utilities and subscriptions as well.
6. Contact current and former employers.13. Re-title any joint tenancy accounts. Make sure
Contact current and former employer humanto re-title any accounts that were in joint tenancy
resource departments and ask them to fax orto the survivor's name only. The bank or other
mail you a benefits summary for life insurance,financial institution will likely request a certified
accident insurance, profit sharing plans, retirementcopy of the death certificate and that you fill out
plans, flexible spending plans, etc. Formertheir appropriate form to make the change. If the
employers may have pension or annuity benefitsjoint tenancy asset is real estate, an Affidavit of
listing beneficiaries.Death of Joint Tenant along with a Certified Death
7. Contact the Social Security Administration.Certificate will need to be recorded at the County
Contact the local Social Security Office and notifyAssessor's Office.
them of the death. You can find an office at If