| Are you starting to feel that your man has | | | | necessarily dying, if your guy does just one of |
| changed so much, in a negative way, that your | | | | these things just once. However, if he indulges in |
| relationship is starting to die a slow death? In this | | | | any of these behaviors frequently over time, then |
| article I will shed some light on the kinds of things | | | | you have cause to worry. What's most important |
| men do when they want to extinguish the flame | | | | is how your guy reacts when you bring this |
| that sizzles their love. I will also give you some | | | | behavior to his attention. Does he apologize and |
| some ideas on how you can reignite the fire in | | | | promise to make a change, or does he just not |
| your relationship. | | | | care about your feelings? If he apologizes and |
| Here are some to the signs to look out for: His | | | | seems to show some remorse, then you know |
| love for you is losing its life-blood, if you find that, | | | | you have a good chance at resurrecting your love |
| most of the time, he behaves in the following | | | | again, and here are some things you can do: |
| ways: | | | | Start with yourself. Start doing those things that |
| 1. He no longer makes time to spend with you on | | | | show that you can still go on even if he decides |
| a weekly basis. | | | | to leave. |
| 2. He prefers to go out with his friends than take | | | | ·Get in shape - It is possible that your |
| you out. | | | | mate's comments about your weight gain could |
| 3. He is easily annoyed by things that never | | | | actually be true. |
| bothered him in the past. | | | | ·Make sure you always look your best - |
| 4. He finds it difficult to tell you he loves you. | | | | Do your hair and nails, and be sure to put your |
| 5. He constantly talks about how fat you are. | | | | make up on. |
| 6. He talks down to you. | | | | ·Read books that will boost your |
| 7. He has started being dissatisfied with things you | | | | self-esteem and self-image. |
| do for him. | | | | ·Start doing things with your friends and |
| 8. He prefers to work extra hours so he will have | | | | family members. When your man sees that you |
| less time to spend with you. | | | | are not sitting home pouting, and that you are |
| 9. He has stopped doing you any favors. | | | | actually going out and having fun, he realizes that |
| 10. He has told you that perhaps both of you | | | | he is not necessarily the only thing going on in |
| should slow things down a bit. | | | | your life. |
| 11. He encourages you to go out and have fun | | | | ·Have a talk with him about how he has |
| without him. | | | | changed and how that change has impacted your |
| 12. He forgets your birthdays or anniversaries and | | | | relationship. Your goal here is to find out what |
| makes no effort to buy you gifts. | | | | exactly is bugging him, and once you do, you are |
| 13. He laughs out loud when he talks to his friends | | | | now equipped with what the problem is and you |
| or family members, and never laughs out loud | | | | are able to map out some solutions. |
| with you. | | | | ·Indulge in a romantic candlelight dinner for |
| 14. He flirts openly with other women in your | | | | two at home. |
| presence. | | | | ·Take an overnight trip out of town, and |
| 15. He has started comparing you to other | | | | be sure to stay in a good hotel. Go see some |
| women in terms of how you should look or | | | | sights together, and take some pictures. |
| behave. | | | | ·Take a cruise to an exotic place - the |
| 16. He doesn't really care about sleeping with you | | | | islands or wherever you've both been dying to |
| in the same bed. | | | | see. |
| 17. He seems to have lost interest in making love | | | | ·If your efforts don't seem to be |
| with you. | | | | changing things, ask your mate if he is open to |
| 18. You are starting to find telephone numbers of | | | | seeing a relationship counselor. |
| other women in his wallet or clothes. | | | | If all else fails and your guy is hell-bent on letting |
| 19.He has started staying out overnight when he | | | | his love for you slip away, at least you weren't |
| goes out on weekends. | | | | sitting around doing nothing. You were taking care |
| 20. He has started lying about where he has been | | | | of yourself and improving your self-esteem, |
| and who he's been with. | | | | having fun with your friends and these are things |
| Bear in mind that your relationship is not | | | | that men find attractive in a woman. Good luck. |